The Art of Becoming is about turning obstacles into opportunities.
Drawing from philosophy, resilience, and real-life experiences, I share lessons on navigating adversity, cultivating wisdom, and living with purpose.
Life isn’t about avoiding hardships. It’s about becoming someone who thrives in it.
We won’t always have the answers, but we can search for them together.
I hope you’ll join me.
It was the most successful failure ever.
And a masterclass in leadership and grit.
On August 1, 1914, Sir Ernest Shackleton and his crew of 27 men began an audacious mission to cross the Antarctic continent.
What started as a bold expedition turned into an extraordinary fight for survival.
By January 1915, their ship, the Endurance, became trapped in the unrelenting grip of pack ice. It drifted northward on the ice floes until it was crushed by the ice, forcing Shackleton to order his men to abandon the ship.
They spent nearly two years stranded on the ice. After months on drifting floes and taking refuge on a barren rock called Elephant Island, Shackleton realized rescue wasn’t coming.
He took five men and sailed 800 miles in a 22-foot lifeboat, the James Caird, to reach a whaling station in South Georgia.
They sailed for 16 days through 60-foot waves and freezing temperatures, navigating by the stars alone. It is considered one of the most remarkable feats of navigation and survival in maritime history.
Once he reached the island, he didn’t stop. His mission wasn’t finished.
He climbed an uncharted mountain range—without a map and climbing gear—to get help on the other side. He never rested until every single one of his men was rescued.
The men of the Endurance endured unimaginable hardship. Their actions became a template for leadership, resilience, and determination.
Ernest Shackleton named his ship Endurance after his family’s motto, Fortitudine Vincimus—“By endurance, we conquer.”
It was fitting.
Before any rescue, they had to endure. And living became their conquest.
The Buddha taught that suffering is an inescapable truth of life.
Epictetus, who was once enslaved for over 20 years, reminded his students that how we face adversity reveals who we are.
Enduring is standing firm when the world pushes against us. It is our quiet rebellion, our act of defiance, and often, how we conquer. It isn't glamorous and is rarely celebrated.
But enduring is often how we win. Our refusal to give in is our first act of conquest.
We endure because stopping is not an option.
Shackleton and his men braved starvation and freezing winds—not for fame, but because survival was their only option. And to survive was their ultimate act of defiance.
Like the crew of the Endurance, our survival is often quiet and unnoticed. And our act of endurance is a big ‘Eff You!’ to the obstacles we face.
We don't surrender to suffering but confront it. It is not our enemy but our teacher, and it is the truth we carry.
We awaken to the truth: Suffering does not define us. We decide what limits us—and what doesn't.
Overcoming suffering is our path to freedom. That’s when we begin to conquer.
Endurance is the quiet strength to face life and meet the impossible head-on.
It is Shackleton and his crew on the ice for two years. It’s Viktor Frankl surviving Auschwitz. And every child on a pediatric cancer ward.
It is you enduring your impossible.
Thanks for reading. Endurance doesn’t always roar, ready to get up and fight. It often whispers, “Get up. Get up. Don’t give up.”
Love to you and yours,
Michael
Such an inspiring read! 'Overcoming suffering is the path to freedom'.... This is deep.
Thank you Charu.